Are you being YOU in relationships?

Culture after culture civilizations have evolved but there have been a few constants in all those evolutions, one of which is *relationships."

Coming to the current era, relationships play a major role in our daily life. It's like the bread and butter of being alive. I'm not talking about just the romantic ones here, but also the ones you have with your parents, your family, your friends and friend's friends and so on.

They are the ways, we look at ourselves and sometimes even be with ourselves based on the relationship in our lives. How do you feel about the relationships in your life? Are they fun? Are they boring? Are they just 'okay?' Or are they different?

What if you can have a greater relationship with everyone and everything just by having a greater relationship with you? How cool is that?

I know, I know, the idea of having a greater relationship with you might seem vague and too philosophical, but can I let you in on a little secret?

It worked for me, seriously!

Embracing myself was not a tough job, but was also not a choice I made any sooner even after realizing all of this. I had to get that I, being all of me without hiding myself, am not a wrongness. I had to be the space that I had always wished someone else could be for me. It wasn't just a one-day thing. Things took their own time. But little by little, step by step, I started to be more and more of me. What if you could be that too? What would like to have it?

"Being me" isn't a destination that where I have to reach. I feel it's an ongoing journey in which I have to make the choice of being myself, every day. Yes definitely as my relationship with myself changed, as I started to BE more of me, everything in my life started to be more different smooth, lighter, and surprisingly happier! How does it get any better than that?

Would you like to be more of you? Have ease being you?

Here's are some tools you might wanna try. Start asking these every day:

• Who am I today?

• What can I be today that I have never been willing to be before?

• If I was truly being me here, what would I choose? (In case of any situation where you feel double, triple minded)

The point of these questions isn't to seek an answer. They are just to invite the energy and universe to contribute to you. Ask and you shall receive.

The greatest gift you ever give is your honest self. - Fred Rogers